The Wound is the Way

A six-month initiatory coach training program
with Aly Hazeltree

Whatever you have struggled with in this lifetime is pointing to what you are here to learn, and to what you are here to offer. The wound is where your extraordinary lives. I will teach you to work with it in such a way that you become not only the artist of your life, but the catalyst for change in other's lives.

I am opening a new doorway for a group of committed, courageous, impassioned people to join me in 6 month container of initiatory coach training. You who are finally ready to step out of your stories of lack, powerlessness and confusion, to heed the call from your soul and birth the seeds of purpose you’re here to deliver.

Your purpose is not just the thing that you do. It's the thing that happens to others when you do what you do. It's the experience and the impact that your energy leaves with them. It's how others feel and transform around you. Your expression is the only thing you've really got.

In this training, you will transform the leaden weight of your fears, insecurities, limiting beliefs, past traumas and manipulation strategies into self-awareness, capacity, alignment, empowerment, and purpose. You will cease the endless hiding, collapsing or procrastinating and step boldly into powerful service.

You will also learn aspects of running and marketing a conscious business - revealing & unraveling money beliefs, ethics, reciprocity, heart-led service, the importance of rest, intentional cultivation of silence, time in nature and connection to place and community.

I'm confident that you will not see any other coach training program on the market that dives into all these areas of study, it truly is a unique initiation into a powerful neuro-psycho-spiritual methodology of coaching I've developed over 15 years of deep study, professional training and devotional practice. It requires commitment.

Your Mission

“Most of us go through life not knowing what we want, but feeling damned sure this isn’t it.”

Until you recognise that your wounds contain your dharma (soul purpose), you will feel that your dharma is a burden.

My original wound was around being seen - in my sensitivity, in my expression of "too muchness". That is also, precisely, my dharma. I help people find their voices, to trust their intuitive knowing, to reconnect with their power, wisdom, authenticity & magnetism and then move boldly forward in that direction.

The capacity I've built in my own system helps them hold the spectrum of light AND dark inside them that they couldn't previously hold.

But here is my warning: When you decide to say YES to your path, life will give you the exact medicine you need to find it. And sometimes the most bitter medicine IS the healing. All that self-doubt, insecurity and self-criticism must be met before what's true and aligned can move through you.

We will explore what you believe you need in order to feel ready or complete, or to begin what longs to be begun.

We will expose what you would rather die than be seen as.

We will clarify THE THING you most want people to know...

And we will clear what stands in the way of your ability to communicate that powerfully.

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The Alchemy

The real depth of the journey I take people on…is to their core. My work is a deep unearthing process, to access who you truly are and release all that you are not. Sometimes it's bone-cracking work.

To express what we fear would kill us, to take the shape of the shadow and dance as it, scream as it, play as it — and then discover we didn't die. That we're still here and the spaciousness actually grew. This is what it means to individuate.

And you will learn how to do this for others. To guide people to meet their shadows and step out of victimhood. To get intimate with their hunger, their desires, their tender heart, their pleasure, sometimes their rage, and to meet it from a place of embodied responsibility and aliveness.

You will learn how to work with the theatre of someone's life: the drama, the neurosis, the recurring patterns, the places they most want to look away from. You'll learn to see what's actually happening beneath the surface story, and how to work with it precisely.

More than any of the techniques, though, you'll learn how to hold capacity. How to sit with someone in intolerable territory without flinching, or trying to fix. That capacity is built through your own continued practice throughout the six months - and it is, ultimately, the most important thing you'll develop. In this way, you become magnetic.

Study Topics

My proprietary "Mind Mirror" Process

Parts Work - Internal Family Systems

'Spellbreaks', NLP & Emotional Repression Inquiry

Building Nervous System Capacity

The Predictive Brain & Neuropsychology

Shadow Work - The Alchemy of Shame into Power

By embodying these skills first in yourself, you will learn how to coach people to:

Harness one of the most powerful tools we have - our attention
Recognise the thought-created nature of suffering
Somatically explore and expand the body’s capacity to hold high sensation, discomfort and even pain - such that you can FEEL your feelings without fear or numbing out
See and hear what’s behind the prison of conditioning
Learn how to wield NLP language patterns that create profound changes
Uncover and legitimize your TRUE desires without guilt or regret and boldly ask for what you want (Knowing what you want is your key to wielding ethical power)
Develop congruence: the experience of your body’s language being aligned with your intentions and words.
Reconnect with the aliveness of your life force and utilise that life force as a source of creativity
Create flexible boundaries and a code of practice that keeps you and your clients safe from unhealthy emotional enmeshment
The importance of structure, ritual and routine to balance flow and chaos, being and doing

This work can become your soul purpose, an extra income stream or an initiation into a deeply conscious life

Maybe you are looking to leave your current work and build a full practice. Others may be drawn to being of service but have no intention of leaving a career that supports their family — they want meaningful work alongside it, that uses a different part of them and contributes to their own continued growth.

Or you find this work fascinating for it's own sake, you've experienced the power of this coaching and would love to wield these skills in your personal and relational life.

All are entirely legitimate reasons to join. The skills and depth of consciousness you develop through this training are genuinely transferable to a practice of your own, whether that's a handful of clients a month or a full-time offering.

What you build here has real-world application from the moment you begin, through your peer practice, and long after the six months are complete.

I can genuinely say that doing this work is THE greatest joy and fulfilment of my life.

Who Is This Initiatory Training For?

You've done enough work to know how much more is possible.

You feel the pull toward this work.

Something in you has always known that your struggles contain meaning. You're drawn to depth, to the human psyche, to the kind of conversations that actually create change. You want to learn to work with people in that territory.

You want to be of powerful service.

Whether you're looking to build a full practice or to add a meaningful income stream alongside your existing work, you want what you offer to carry genuine depth — not just tools, but a whole new way of seeing and being.

Maybe you've already taken a coach training

But rather than another empty qualification to hang on a wall, you want a methodology that actually serves people to become free — one that honours what you've already been through and teaches you to work with it directly.

You're ready for the full range.

This isn't a training where you learn to hold a 'safe space' and leave the rest untouched. We go into the difficult material — identity, shadow, soma, accountability, expression, and the ego payoffs that keep people stuck. You need to be willing to go there in yourself first.

I'm offering a Super Early-Bird discounted rate until October.

When the 'Super Early-bird' offer ends, I'm working on making it possible for you to pay in monthly instalments to make it as accessible as I can. The energetics of this container are of the utmost importance, so we will arrange a discovery call to establish whether mentorship is right for you at this time.

Super Earlybird
3,360£
Until October 1st
Valid for one month

How is this training structured?

Glad you asked. The details:

We connect twice a month for a powerful 2.5 to 3-hour training workshop on zoom, with assignments and practices offered in my course platform Thrive School. The more commitment and energy you put into the assignments and cohort practice sessions, the deeper the transformation and skills you embody. I will be very present here throughout the 6 months, this is a 'high touch' container & you will feel my continuous support and supervision.
Between calls, two monthly 60 min practice sessions with your peers in structured pairs and small groups, and I supervise that practice so nothing is left to drift.
Cohort group for accountability, support, sharing & celebrating each other, and any additional practice you want to organise together. More is better.
Access to all calls, material and practices for 1 year to catch up or re-watch.
The option to buy a licence (including a dedicated app) to practice my proprietary coaching methodology, "The Mind Mirror Process" with your own clients.
After the program ends, an ongoing monthly supervised practice group that I will host to keep your skills fresh and to bring any difficult case studies for analysis.
A graduate discount on level 2 of the training which is a deep dive into hypnosis skills.
The option to book discounted 1-2-1 coaching or hypnotherapy sessions with me (35% off)

Aly Hazeltree . .. My Story

I was an only child, raised in a troubled, working class home in a concrete council estate in London. My expression, my sensitivity, the fact of me taking up space - all of it was shut down, sometimes with violence, or humiliation. I was a body full of feeling with nowhere for any of it to go, and so it turned against me instead.

Teen alcoholism became an escape. I tried to find belonging in the hedonistic rave scene of the 90's. Neither worked and my repressed expression became depression, anxiety, chronic illness and crippling panic attacks. My own mind felt like an unsafe place.

In 2009, after decades of trying to numb myself or fix myself through every therapeutic avenue I could find, I ended up in hospital following a crisis-burnout that made one thing absolutely clear to me: I had to learn about the nature of mind. As a literal survival imperative.

So that's what I did. I started meditating. I immersed in a self-study of the world's great spiritual traditions, I devoured philosophy, psychology and neuroscience books and research papers. I was drawn to seek out excellent teachers all over the world and I sat in silent retreats for up to 7 months at a time.

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